Today is my Abah's birthday.. Age? Shhh rahsia katenyeerr.. Haha. Well, he is the best man I ever met. I love you so much words can't describe!
My Abah adalah seorang yang garang at the surface but really soft inside. Bukan la lembut pondan tapi dia ni soft-hearted sket. Bak kata orang, "Muka Metallica tapi hati Westlife". Flashback when I was standard 5/6 or even form 1/2/3, kalau ada laki yang call rumah je confirm2 dia tak bagi bebudak tuh cakap and he always marah me cakap abah tak suka laki-laki call rumah malam-malam nih. Well to tell you the truth, I never ever pass my telephone number to them! ntah macam mana bebudak ni dapat. Even when I had a boyfriend (after SPM) abah still tak suka orang call me.So my ex-boyfriend kena pakai adik perempuan dia utk cakap dulu then when I picked up baru laa dia rcakap. Tuh pun, if my abah smell something fishy, mesti dia angkat telefon atas nak dengar and kitorang cecepat letak. Hahah.. Kelakar gila. Back then, I never understand the reasons of he acted that way but as I grow up and have a daughter, I understand all the reasons now. He was just trying to protect me. Oh Abah, thank you!
Abah jugak suka tido lambat, watching TV, and his fav show adalah wrestling. Now berjangkit dh dengan my youngest sister. Actually, dulu masa dia study oversea (UK) dia memang active bersukan and masuk competition body builder. So gym was his home back then. Now kat rumah pun bilik belakang dibuatnye mini-gym utk dia exercise. Kalau tak puas, after Asar dia akan pergi gym and sometimes jadi coach jugak kat bebudak kat gym tuh. He is fit you know. He always dream of having a son so that he can teach his son bout the gym thingy things. But Allah grant him 4 beautiful daughters (ehem..ehem..), 1 grandson and 2 grand daughters. And he is grateful for that.
Kitorang adik-beradik di train utk tido at 10pm everyday every school days. Our routine was, lets say pagi sekolah biasa, ptg sekolah agama, malam lepas solat Maghrib berjamaah, kitorang dinner together then buat homework or do revision. Before tido, kemas beg sekolah, gosok baju sekolah, cari stokin etc then baru tido. Every night, without miss, Abah will come to our room, selimutkan kitorang, usap-usap rambut and tutup lampu (kalau kitorang tertido sambil baca buku cerita). Oh Allah, how wonderful my Abah was and still is. Thank you Allah, Thank you Abah.
My abah is so different from other dads out there. He concentrated more to his family needs. He always advise me that, family comes first, work, money or wutever come later. Insya Allah I will remember that. Abah cakap macamane busy pun jangan lupakan anak-anak punya pelajaran sebab pelajaran yang membezakan kita. Walaupun duit tak banyak but with knowledge we can survive. Abah, apa yang abah cakap dulu memang btol. Kalau abah tak marah and paksa A'a gi sekolah dulu, I don't think I can be a vet, and I don't think 3 of my sisters are doctors and an Executive Celcom. I used to said that I have the most "tak sporting" dad ever to you, but now I thank you for not being a "sporting" dad to me, to us. U are like the BEST of all the BEST!
Actually, kalau nak ceritakan pasal my Abah, memang tak tertulis sebab banyak giler. And I Love u so much for that and I can't thank you enough for that. Just so u know, he calls me every morning just to " tanya khabar", Actually I know he just misses me and Aisyah kan? Insya Allah kitorang balik nanti. (padahal baru seminggu tak balik hehe) It shows how much he cares, tak kesah la anak dia dh ada suami ke belum he still care. Love love love YOU ABAH!
Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku, Aku bersyukur kepada-Mu kerana mengurniakan Abah ini kepadaku. Seorang yang penyayang,bertanggung jawab dan sentiasa berada di sisi ku walaupun dah besar panjang ni. I couldn't ask for more. Ampunkan dosa Abahku, murahkan rezekinya, berkatilah hidupnya dan semoga dia sentiasa di bawah lindungan-Mu Ya Allah.
Amin...
Abah dear, terima kasihh banyak-banyak. Jasamu, pengorbananmu memang seriously TAK dapat nak balas. Hanya Allah je yang membalasnya. I love you so so much and again Thanks for being a dad to me, who I can turn to, can rely on and always be beside me, support me and never give up on me even I have sinned.
(rasa macam nak nagis pun ada now..) Seriously, A'a sayang abah gile banyak!!!
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L-R (Abah, Cik Kadir) was taken few years back, celebrating Father's Day. |